Saturday, October 16, 2010

Jibber Jabber

Is that even a word?  And where did I hear it?

I woke up this morning and decided instead of checking my email with my coffee....I'd post my jibber jabber :)

So, here is goes..... "am I still working out"?

I'm happy to say YES.  I really think I feel better when I do!! Yesterday was not a work out day and I felt like crap all day.  But...it also could have been it's the end of the week and I'm exhausted.

Here's goes some TMI........when I was in the shower Thursday....I was shaving my legs and when I went to run the razor over my calf...a little muscle popped up.  I was thrilled!!! Haven't seen one of those in a while!  
As far as weight loss...I stopped weighing myself because it was depressing me.  I've not lost hardly any....but I know that muscle weighs more and I'm confident I'll start to shed. Although...who starts a weight loss program right before the holidays?  What was I thinking?

Next subject....when I purchased the Kindle and then the ipad...I kinda stopped going to the bookstore.  Or I would take Brooke and stay in the car (I know sounds worse as I'm typing it....but seriously do they want me to whip out my ipad and made a purchase right there).  Back to my story....when I read books for pleasure I prefer reading it on my ipad...but when it's motivational, self help or educational I like the book in my hands.  I re read sentences...what can I say it takes me a few times to really process it.  So, last night Brooke and I head to the book store.  While she's shopping I'm in the back of the store looking at books about computers, web design, photoshop, blogging...you know books that teach you stuff (own a bunch...read very few).   Before I get to the story I need to ask...isn't the book store like the library?  Are you supposed to be quiet for the most part?  Who can listen to someone talking a mile a minute and buy a book.
That's what we experienced last night....two young girls came over with their coffee and cupcakes and decided to talk the entire time.  And the coffee area of Borders....is at the front of the store in the opposite corner...so they left where they were supposed to be and found our quiet corner and ruined it for us.
There was one lady on her laptop trying to work....I'm sure she felt the same way.  I finally told Brooke.....I had to go I couldn't listen to the conversation another minute.
As an adult...what should I have done?  I'm pretty sure I failed that test. I admit I growled all the way out the door.  That was sooooo rude of them.  Should I have said something....or gotten management?  Would they have cared?  I'll tell you this....if I could have read the words on the pages...I would have bought more books ...but they were so distracting I couldn't understand the words.
So....book store owners.....  figure this one out for me.  The basket of books we purchased out weighed & their two cups of coffee and a cupcake bigtime!!

Okay here come another biggie....it just maybe too much info for you today.

Anytime I've confronted someone...it's always been a disaster and I don't mean little ....I mean major...it always backfires.  Here's an example....back in 1998 we had just moved to IL ...we had been there for two weeks and I drove all the way to Merrillville, Indiana ....to the nearest Sams.  When it came time to purchase...I walked up to the registers and there was a lady that was standing between two lanes...I said very nicely...."which lane are you in"?   she replied back "both"...well I laughed and said I" don't think you can do that"...seriously have you ever seen a grown woman do that?  Okay maybe some of you reading this have..but in the south...that's just called rude.

She then proceeded to chew me out and mock me the entire time she was in the store.  We had moved from Tennessee in 1995...so my southern accent was very strong then... she tried to mock my southern accent but it was just terrible.   Since Brooke was little and I was terrified they had a gun...I never said another word to her....just let her rant like a crazy person.  Had Brooke not been there...more than likely it would have been ugly but it's best it happened the way it did.  I still do think it's funny....if you think about it.  What's not funny is how she handled it.  She could have said I'm really in a hurry or I don't feel well.  I was open for discussion...but clearly she wasn't.
I sure hope whoever that was...she doesn't read my blog...and lady if you do...I FORGIVE YOU.

My blog post looks like a short story and everything I've read about blogging says keep it short and sweet.   That's hard for a person that likes to talk.

Have you seen the movie "Remember Me"?   Rent it...I wish I had known what the movie was really about.  When I saw the previews...I thought it was about a dysfunctional family.  It's really about so much more...I sobbed at the end ...well in the middle too.  If you've seen it...the scene with the little girl & what those girls did to her....broke my heart!!!  
Tonight I'm going to see a double feature "You Again" and "Life as we know it".  It's been a while since I've seen two...but I remember the days when my best friend & I would go from movie to movie (sometimes we even saw three) not sure my hiney could handle that now.

See ya later!


p.s. remind me to tell you about Door Dingers :)

5 comments:

Cathy said...

"I said very nicely...."which lane are you in"? she replied back "both"...Okay maybe some of you reading this have..but in the south...that's just called rude"

My sister encountered such an attitude this week. Her daughter is in a music program for which the clothing is being provided. My sister emailed the teacher to find out about shoes (meaning heels, flats, particular color...etc.) The teacher's response was: "Yes, she should wear shoes." I'm pretty easy going and don't get too irritated over the little stuff, but I thought this was super rude! Like my sister would send her dau to a program barefoot? Give me a break!

Michelle said...

Congrats on keeping up with the work outs! I get up at 4:30 every morning so I can walk for an hour before my daycare kids start to arrive. Although I hate every second of it, I can tell that it make a difference in my day, physically as well as emotionally.

Thanks for being such an inspiration to me!

Angie said...

Super amazing post! loved it! a) my daughters could spend their inheritance in chapters...but my mother already has!!! yes, book stores should be quiet. i think management would have been a perfect solution. sam's lady? totally rude! i would have asked too. i have a high school across from my house and the teens smoke sometimes in big groups on my driveway. when i tell them to move, afterwards, i shake like crazy and my heart races. i hate confrontation! the same with negative comments on my blog. it upsets me! i commented already about remember me - hope you saw it. haunting. glad to hear about the working out. you inspired me and i'm trying. not crazy, just 30 mins. on the treadmill and some light weights. need to lose 17 pounds minimum. it's hard. vegas will be hard! keep it up tho and don't worry about weighing yourself! have a great week!

Ruth B said...

Glad to hear that your workouts are showing results - even if they aren't quite what you expected. All that toning will make you look and feel better.

Re the bookstore - are there any signs that say food and drink only in the front corner? If so, an employee should have been called. But like many others, I don't like confrontation either.

Keep up the good work.

Jamie Garity said...

I hate confrontation too. I was at the grocery store the other day and I got in the shortest express lane. The people in the next lane yelled at me that there was only one line for both lanes. I did make a comment that since when did this happen... But, I still got in the one lane. As soon as those lane police had checked out, the other lane started filling up with people who had just walked up. I was so angry with myself! I hate being bullied!